bi people

has anyone else have this happen to them where they talk to some one who is bi but they say i'm not bi there i don't know theres a whole lot of terms like i don't see sex's or other like that and use big words i don't get it just say bi i know there might be some bigger meaning behind it but no if your bi your like both men and woman i don't care if you *don't see sex's* witch i don't think you are but you sound like a snub and you can call me an asshole who does not know what hes talking about and its ok because i kinda am but still it has happed to me a lot and it gets annoying.